Love, perspective and going insane

 

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“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”

― Abraham Lincoln

Perspective, it is everything. The truth is, there really is no truth, it is all interpretation. So, is your life awesome? Yes! Does your life suck? Yes! Both are right, but you get to choose which one it is. Our minds are so powerful, it is said that it can actually create reality into the universe itself, hence, your belief creates your reality.

Another interesting piece of reality, is that good thoughts begets good thoughts, and bad thoughts create bad thoughts. Neurons in our mind form tracks and clump together, so if you think funny things, more funny things will come to you. The problem is, the opposite is true as well. That is why it is so important to think good things, and surround yourself with good people. To be in a relationships with people who make you feel good, not on edge. Being around a negative person, especially a partner, will make you go insane after awhile, because your body is going to go into panic mode and try to rid itself of this overflowing negativity.

That is why if you are with someone who is not communicating with you and is radiating negativity, without trying to help themselves out, you just gotta drop them like they’re hot. (I do not mean to be insensitive, I know the complications of relationships, especially if you are married to that individual or have children.) But something needs to be done, you have to save yourself if you want to help others, especially your children. People can be noble, you probably believe that you must sacrifice yourself to save others, like stay with someone who doesn’t make you happy. Trust me, that is a recipe for disaster. We are not superhuman, negativity collects in us, just like cholesterol, got to get away from it or your body and mind will start lashing out.

So, what am I trying to say? Be careful in what you believe, and what you think, because our minds and souls are like giant magnets, it will attract your greatest love, or greatest regrets.

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