KISS Keep it simple stupid

I have not posted anything in a long time, I cannot lie, it was because I felt bogged down with the entire process.  Life had gotten complicated, with technology going overboard, and competition for anything skyrocketing.  I was trying to keep up with everything, working so hard I forgot the most important element.  And that[…]

Fallen horse

Dreams sometimes die as quick as they are born.   Blows away like dust, goes away so quickly, the dream never even had a chance to make it to memory. I had a dream, a dream of having a successful WordPress site, where people could share their hopes, their fears and where we could all[…]


When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down “happy.” They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.[…]


  “Narcissistic people are always struggling with the fact that the rest of the world doesn’t revolve around them.”   – Unknown   I have talked to numerous people, who have had toxic relationships with someone who was a narcissist. Narcissist are truly dangerous, because out of all the personality disorders, narcissist are by the far[…]


“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.” ― William G.T. Shedd Everything in life seems to be a gamble. For example, who you decide to spend your life with, you are risking a lot. The risk is not so huge if you decide this person is not the one[…]

Warmth in the cold

“Stars can’t shine without darkness” ― D.H. Sidebottom, Fragile Truths That is the good news if you are going through difficult times. I remember when I was a child, and I was outside playing in the cold bitter snow, I remember the Christmas lights glowing dimly under that white blanket. The night was completely still,[…]

How society hypnotizes you

  The three different ways society hypnotizes you, by hijacking your subconscious mind.  I have studied hypnosis for awhile, so I could do self hypnosis on myself. The techniques in hypnosis are amazing, it can make you feel incredible, and help reprogram your subconscious mind. Almost all the decisions you make, are automatic. They do[…]

American dream

  “That’s why they call it the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it.” ― George Carlin In America, trying to “make it” can prove difficult. If you decide to go to school, to make a prosperous career, even with a degree it is a huge risk. For my bachelors, it[…]

Buddha quote

  “Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.” – Buddha   For instant happiness,  think about what you do have in your life, instead of what you don’t.  Society thrives on selling you things, so it is constantly putting you in a state of want.  Let’s shift that[…]

How depression destroyed my life

“I am terrified by this dark thing That sleeps in me; All day I feel its soft, feathery turnings, its malignity.” ― Sylvia Plath, Ariel It was through many years of frustration, of not being able to get the help that I needed, that I decided to do something about the broken mental health system[…]

Empathy and technology

“The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.” ~ Isaac Asimov We live in such weird times, never have we lived in such time where technology has grown so fast, I cannot keep straight everything that is being created, and better yet, why it is being[…]

The price of pain

    “Did you really want to die?” “No one commits suicide because they want to die.” “Then why do they do it?” “Because they want to stop the pain.” ― Tiffanie DeBartolo, How to Kill a Rock Star Sometimes I feel the anxiety before i react physically to it, the thought will buzz in[…]

It’s OK to be angry

  It’s ok to be angry every once in awhile.   Especially if you have gone through mental illness in your life. I was reading a magazine today on the success of Jared Leto, and the amazing accomplishments he achieved.   I was wondering, how can one achieve so much in their lives? What makes someone so[…]

Why can’t I stop?

    “Every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol, morphine or idealism.” ― C.G. Jung Addiction is a complex destroyer of the body and soul. We all scratch our heads about it, why is it so hard for me to let go of something, when I know that it[…]

The genius of Salvador Dali

    “Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.” ― Salvador Dalí I strive for perfection, and I then I pondered, perfection really does not exist. What is perfection anyway? It is a hypothesis that our minds created, an unreachable goal that is designed to make us feel inadequate. If there is something[…]

A single Cell

    Every human spent half an hour as a single cell -Mark Caldwell This quote absolutely blew my mind, our body is made up of trillions of working cells, and we all started out as one. It tells me that anything is possible, one step at a time. When I was working on my[…]

Stephen Hawking quote

“If aliens visit us, the outcome would be much as when Columbus landed in America, which didn’t turn out well for the Native Americans. We only have to look at ourselves to see how intelligent life might develop into something we wouldn’t want to meet.” — From Into the Universe with Stephen Hawking, 2010.


  “Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning do to do afterward.” ― Kurt Vonnegut When it rains it pours, it seems frustrating things come in giant sticky clumps. If one thing doesn’t work, 50 other things are not going to work[…]

John Lennon and He-Man

      “I am a violent man who has learned not to be violent and regrets his violence.” ― John Lennon There is a reason why we avoid negative people, because when they vibrate negativity, their negativity enters us. We are so interconnected in fact, that people do not have to even say anything[…]

Quote of the day

  “It surprises me how disinterested we are today about things like physics, space, the universe and philosophy of our existence, our purpose, our final destination. Its a crazy world out there. Be curious.” ― Stephen Hawking    

The purpose

“The bravest thing I ever did was continuing my life when I wanted to die.” ― Juliette Lewis   Who at one point or another has not thought about ending their life? It is just the kaleidoscope of living, so many different colors flashing before our eyes, some of the colors happy, while other dark,[…]

The choice of happiness

  There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path. Buddha quote   It is hard to be happy.  Sometimes I wonder if it is even a choice for some people.  For some people, happiness is probably something that comes every once in a long while, like a harvest moon or a four leafed[…]

Trees and the mind

    “Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.” ― Eckhart Tolle   Building a website, going back for a masters, working a job, it has all been so overwhelming that I have realized that I am not enjoying the process very much. I feel that no matter how[…]

Oceans of content

So many lives I see, such beauty in them, traveling the worlds, making it look easy. Just a little bit of elbow grease and a solid target and then you strike gold. Mind spinning, wondering, where is the prize. Elbow grease, check, goals, check, gold? Nothing. Captain, this ship is running out of food and[…]

The real magic

It really is not difficult to find the love of your life, their really is only one thing people need, a magic bullet of the sorts. I have seen lots of dating coaches in action, I have seen techniques that make sense, and some that are so off the wall that I would bust out[…]


“Whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right” -Henry Ford Belief is everything, it is more important then actual facts, because the mind will follow your beliefs, it is the reason why placebo effects are so powerful. Have you ever wondered why some people are so wildly successful? Ever wondered how some people just[…]